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Robert Edward Wilkins  November 25, 1943 - July 30, 2016

Robert Edward Wilkins was born November 25, 1943 and died July 30, 2016 of complications from cancer.  Son of the late Mr. and Mrs. George Wesley Wilkins, Sr. (Mary Kathleen McCluney) of Memphis, he was preceded in death by siblings, Kathleen W. Speer, Rose W. Bolton, Sue Wilkins, George, Jr. and David Wilkins.  He is survived by sisters, Margaret W. McMahan of Memphis and Mary Len W. Costa of New Orleans, as well as 35 nieces and nephews.

A native of Memphis, Mr. Wilkins attended Bellevue Private School, Bellevue Jr. High and graduated from Whitehaven High School.  He received a music scholarship to the University of Mississippi and later completed graduate studies in theology.

Music, classical and religious, was the center of Mr. Wilkins’ life.  He studied piano for many years before focusing on brass instruments, in particular, the French horn and trumpet.  He began his teaching career in Bruce, MS and later served as assistant band director in Paris, TN. Over the past 50 years, he served congregations in Mississippi and Tennessee in multiple capacities from teaching children to leading senior adults.  Prior to his illness, he led the Music Ministry at Grace Acres Baptist Church where his strong voice enhanced the worship services.  He also participated in pioneer mission work of the West Baptist Conference in Montana and Wyoming and faithfully played “Taps” for Memorial Day services at Twin Oaks Memorial Gardens and Funeral Home for the past two decades.

Mr. Wilkins’ knowledge of the scriptures and Bible history was an asset to his 19 years of employment with the Cokesbury Bookstore in east Memphis.  The customers he served became dear friends, who trusted his guidance on religious theory and still sought his expertise, even during his final illness.

Always kind and patient, Mr. Wilkins was a favorite uncle to three generations of nieces, nephews, and cousins, who treasured his dry wit and sense of humor.  He was also a gentle and dependable caregiver to elderly family members and friends.  He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

Visitation will be Monday, August 1, 2016 from noon until the service begins at 1pm at Grace Acres Baptist Church, 3418 Swinnea Road, Southaven, MS . The graveside service will be Tuesday, August 2, 2016 at 2pm at Forest Hill Cemetery Mid-Town, 1661 Elvis Presley Boulevard, Memphis, TN.

The family requests that memorials in his honor be given to the Robert E. Wilkins Scholarship Fund at Grace Acres Baptist Church, 3418 Swinnea Road, Southaven, MS or the Baptist Reynolds Hospice House, 1520 W. Poplar Avenue, Collierville, TN.


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    Mark S. Davis says

    Mr. Wilkins was my brother’s band director years ago in Bruce, Mississippi. Robert and I made connections through (of all places) Facebook. He never failed to come up with a remark that would provide a chuckle. He always had something positive and uplifting to say and never failed to provide an encouraging word. We’ll miss his uplifting comments and his wit on facebook, but I’m comforted to know that Robert is making music with our Heavenly Father. Prayers of peace and comfort to the family.

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    Wendel Stoltz says

    Robert and I had a relationship of over 50 years. When he was a student in band at Bellevue Jr High playing trumpet for Alan Goldsmith, he began a relationship with our family business Colie Stoltz Music Company. The relationship continued through his days at Ole Miss and as a band director. Robert was a family friend as well as a customer. I recall a day when he and a fellow music major from Ole Miss, Janie Love, came into the store when I was a high school senior and the interaction between the two of them and my father.

    Later, our roles were reversed when Robert was at Cokesbury Bookstore. I saw him frequently as I searched for materials for use in church school. We’d always take time to ‘go down memory lane’ together. A gracious gentleman who leaves the world a better place for his being in it Robert will be missed.

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